Chai's Blog

1. Mas­ter myself. Help oth­ers.
2. If it is not a hell yeah, it is a no.
3. Believe in evo­lu­tion. Not in rev­o­lu­tion.
4. Base goals on iden­ti­ty. Not on per­for­mance or appear­ance.
5. Rely on habits, rules, and sys­tems. Not on goals or willpow­er.

They apply to every­thing I do includ­ing my rela­tion­ships, friend­ships, habits, and ambi­tions.

I learned the first two from Derek Sivers at the end of 2015 and the last two from James Clear at the end of 2013. I chanced upon the third one in July 2013.